Family law deals with the most sensitive moments in our lives: an impending divorce, arranging child custody, negotiating alimony. These situations blend complex legal issues with intense emotions. In Belgium, the family court - a unified jurisdiction established in 2014 - now centralizes all family disputes to spare citizens from navigating multiple courts. But this procedural simplification doesn't make the subject any less technical: between the Civil Code, private international law rules for mixed couples, and constantly evolving case law, mastering Belgian family law requires up-to-date expertise. A specialized lawyer guides you through this journey, defending your interests while preserving family dialogue when possible.
Why hire a family law specialist?
Family law isn't just about applying rules - it requires understanding family dynamics, anticipating the other party's reactions, and sometimes defusing conflicts before they escalate.
A general practitioner knows the broad outlines of divorce or filiation. But a specialist has handled hundreds of cases similar to yours. They know that the family court judge in Brussels doesn't have exactly the same practices as the one in Liege. They understand real processing times, arguments that carry weight, and pitfalls to avoid.
Above all, family law specialists have developed essential cross-cutting skills: mediation, negotiation, sometimes even training in child psychology. Because in these cases, winning at all costs can prove a Pyrrhic victory if it permanently destroys family relationships.
Finally, certain situations require specialized expertise that only a specialist can provide: international child abduction, liquidation of complex matrimonial property regimes with assets abroad, contested filiation proceedings with DNA analysis. In these cases, experience makes all the difference.
How much does a family lawyer cost?
Fees vary considerably depending on case complexity and procedure duration.
For a mutual consent divorce where everything is already settled between spouses, expect a flat fee of 1,500 to 3,000 euros per lawyer (each party must have their own, or you can choose a single lawyer if you agree on everything). The procedure is relatively quick: expect 2 to 4 months.
For a contested divorce, costs increase significantly. The hourly rate of an experienced family lawyer ranges from 125 to 200 euros in the provinces, more in Brussels or at large firms. A divorce with disagreements over child custody and property division can easily reach 5,000 to 15,000 euros, or more if the case drags on.
The good news: legal aid exists for low-income individuals. A single person earning less than 1,526 euros net per month qualifies for a free pro deo lawyer. Between 1,526 and 1,817 euros, a reduced contribution is requested. These thresholds increase by 20% per dependent.
Common family law cases
Divorce remains the most frequent dispute. Belgium distinguishes two paths: mutual consent divorce, when spouses agree on everything (children, assets, alimony), and divorce for irretrievable breakdown, when conflict persists. The latter can be granted after one year of separation, or immediately if one spouse proves the breakdown.
Child custody generates the most intense battles. The Belgian principle is equal shared custody - one week with dad, one week with mom - unless the child's best interests require a different arrangement. Judges examine each situation: geographical distance between parents, children's ages, each parent's availability.
Child support - called contribution alimentaire - is calculated based on each parent's respective income and the child's needs. Since 2010, the Renard method often serves as a reference for objectifying this calculation.
Less well-known, filiation law intervenes to establish or contest a family relationship. Paternity searches, contesting the husband's paternity, adoption: these are all procedures where the lawyer guides clients through strict deadlines and precise conditions.
Questions fréquentes
How long does a divorce procedure take in Belgium?
Can I get sole custody of my children?
How is child support calculated?
Can my ex-spouse claim alimony from me after the divorce?
What can I do if my ex-spouse doesn't pay child support?
How can I modify a custody or support judgment?
Is family mediation mandatory in Belgium?
What is the family court?
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